I have pictures to upload but I'm being lazy. Hopefully I'll do that later!
We had a little family party for Tom on Sunday! It was fun and many thanks to all the relatives who came by. Tommy & Ben both had a good time.
On Friday, Ben decided that he doesn't like going to school. Too bad kid! He cried going in and did so again yesterday. Poor Ben. The teacher's aide said that he calms down after a minute inside and it might be some delayed response to the whole starting
pre-school thing. But when I picked up Ben from school yesterday, the teacher asked if she could talk to me afterwards. I noticed Ben was wearing his "accident" pants. So the teacher grabbed Ben and said "Ben, do you want to tell your mom what happened today?" So Ben replies, "I had an accident and got pee pee all over my pants." So the teacher proceeds to tell me that he didn't have an accident but got a "drop or two" on his pants when he went but insisted on having new pants. I told her that he says/does that a lot.
But that wasn't the "big issue" - apparently our little Ben doesn't like music time and instead of sitting in the circle nicely like all the other kids, he decides to start poking or touching other kids around him. So the teacher decided to not give Ben his daily "good boy" sticker. So I've been trying to talk to him about the importance of music time - but Ben usually just says stuff like "Music is boring. I don't like singing." Although I can relate to this, I try to just tell him that if he doesn't like singing, he still has to sit in the circle like a good boy and listen to his classmates sing. The odd part of this story is that we were in the car talking about this, and a minute after we were done talking I could hear Ben in back say to Tommy, "Tommy, want to learn the songs I sang at school today?" Which was then followed by a song or two from Benny that I have never heard before.
So as "punishment" - I have signed Ben & Tom up for our 3-5 year old
storytime at the library on Tuesdays. We are getting ready to head on over there. Tom will love it. Ben will be miserable. This reminds me of my days of taking baby Ben to
storytime at the Burlington Library. We started when he was just about 3 months old. Around the 9 month mark, all the little babies would laugh and clap and be happy. Baby Ben would just sit there - looking completely miserable. The librarian told me "oh don't worry - he'll come around. He'll get it soon." Pretty much she was nicely saying my little Benny was a dummy. But my motherly instincts told me otherwise - this boy just is not a "music" kid. And here we are - about 3 years later, in the same situation.
Don't worry Benny! You won't grow up to be our next American Idol. You probably won't want to be in the band. Stick to your puzzles and set your sights on MIT! We'll love you no matter what! But in the meantime, stop harassing your classmates during music time!